Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: James 1:19(KJV)
Children, employees, Apprentice, would you like to cope more effectively with your parents’ or your boss rules and correction? If so, all you need to do is to improve your communication skills. And how may you do that? The first step is to listen. Rather than being quick to justify yourself, and also, always try to control your emotions and absorb what your parents or boss have to say. Focus on what is said, not on how it is delivered. Then, rephrase your their comments in your own words and respectfully repeat their remarks back to them. Your doing so will reassure them that you heard what they said. What if you want to give an explanation for your speech or actions? In most cases, it is wise to ‘keep your lips in check’ until after you have complied with your their wishes.(Prov.10:19) Once your they see that you have listened to them, they will be far more inclined to listen to you. Such a mature approach proves that you are being guided by God’s Word.